Almost the entire time Lauer was working on the Today show, he had been in a committed relationship with a woman named Annette Roque – the two got hitched in 1998. They had three children together, but as these allegations of misconduct increased in number and severity, Annette revealed that more than once Matt had been unfaithful during their marriage.
All of these unfaithful episodes, as well as the rumors, allegations, and reports, tipped the scales too far for Roque. She filed for divorce in January of 2018 – yet another blow that Lauer took, but nowhere near the last.
Releasing a Statement
As the rumors swirled around Lauer's head, he put himself on the line and on-air by releasing a statement. His professional conduct and life had come under fire, and he did what he could to shed light on the allegations. He first said that some of the allegations were “untrue or mischaracterized,” but went on to say that many aspects had truth to them.
He said that the events that were true left him “embarrassed and ashamed” of his own conduct. However, there is yet more drama that would continue to rock Lauer's life after his public statement.
Two Weeks Later
A mere fortnight after Lauer released his statement on the reports, yet another allegation arose. A woman by the name of Addie Zinone lodged another complaint against the news anchor, once again citing inappropriate behavior of a similar vein.
Zinone was a former production assistant at NBC that explained she had been in a consensual relationship with Lauer, but she felt that Lauer was abusing his power over her during that time. She included details in her report, such as the idea that turning down his advances made her fear for her job. This raises another detail: Lauer was married the whole time.
The Divorce Payout
Annette leaving was a bad blow to Lauer's personal life, but the divorce came with a monetary blow as well. The three kids we mentioned before still had lives to live, and there are plenty of costs associated with children. They still wanted their kids to have a happy home, so Lauer agreed to pay his eventual ex-wife an incredible amount: twenty million dollars. It might only be one year of work, but it's still a hefty amount of cash.
Page Six reported that this amount came out of Lauer's guilt for cheating on her, and was bending over backward to give her what she wanted.
A Bitter End
The marriage officially came to an end on September seventh, 2019 after almost two years of separation following the abuse allegations. This wasn't even the first time Annette filed for divorce, the first time coming in 2006, while she was pregnant with their third child. On the divorce papers, Annette listed the reason for divorce as “mental abuse, extreme mental and emotional distress, humiliation, torment, and anxiety.”
However, Annette and Lauer reconciled a few weeks after filing. Yet, the second divorce went through, and the couple are now split up.