The marriage officially came to an end on September seventh, 2019 after almost two years of separation following the abuse allegations. This wasn’t even the first time Annette filed for divorce, the first time coming in 2006, while she was pregnant with their third child. On the divorce papers, Annette listed the reason for divorce as “mental abuse, extreme mental and emotional distress, humiliation, torment, and anxiety.”
However, Annette and Lauer reconciled a few weeks after filing. Yet, the second divorce went through, and the couple are now split up.
The Strain on His Marriage
Almost the entire time Lauer was working on the Today show, he had been in a committed relationship with a woman named Annette Roque – the two got hitched in 1998. They had three children together, but as these allegations of misconduct increased in number and severity, Annette revealed that more than once Matt had been unfaithful during their marriage.
All of these unfaithful episodes, as well as the rumors, allegations, and reports, tipped the scales too far for Roque. She filed for divorce in January of 2018 – yet another blow that Lauer took, but nowhere near the last.
The Divorce Payout
Annette leaving was a bad blow to Lauer's personal life, but the divorce came with a monetary blow as well. The three kids we mentioned before still had lives to live, and there are plenty of costs associated with children. They still wanted their kids to have a happy home, so Lauer agreed to pay his eventual ex-wife an incredible amount: twenty million dollars. It might only be one year of work, but it's still a hefty amount of cash.
Page Six reported that this amount came out of Lauer's guilt for cheating on her, and was bending over backward to give her what she wanted.
The First Wife Opens Up
Another interesting fact: Annette wasn't Lauer's first wife. His first marriage was to Nancy Alspaugh who, in a surprising twist, spoke out and said that her ex-husband deserves a second chance. During an interview with ET, Alspaugh went on record saying Lauer was always a “wonderful, generous, kind,” individual. “Matt has always been a support to his family and loved ones,” she said. “He has done so much quietly to help others and to support important causes.
Lauer happened to make an impressive donation to her autism charity, ACT Today.” We wonder if that has anything to do with the kind words Nancy offered.
Second Chance At Love
Lauer's first wife didn't just prop up his character. She also said that she believes it won't be long until Lauer is back in the public's good graces, and will likely find a new relationship soon.
We're starting to wonder why Lauer ever divorced Nancy – we should all find someone who is so supportive.